How to Relocate to the UK from Nigeria with Children

Moving to a new country is a major life change for anyone. When you have children, particularly those in school, an international relocation brings many additional factors to consider. The immigration process can be complex, and adapting to a new environment while ensuring the well-being of your children adds another layer of challenge.

As someone recently moved from Nigeria to the UK, I will share some invaluable insights for fellow families embarking on a similar journey. These five essential tips will help you pave the way for a smoother transition, from preparing your children emotionally to navigating legal requirements.

Before you can emigrate to the UK, you will need a VISA, and many options are available depending on your reason for relocating. We have ;

A Student Visa
UK Spouse Visa for Nigerians
A Work Visa
Entrepreneur Visa

Since we are talking about moving to the UK with children, I will only discuss the spousal Visa. Below are the requirements for applying for a spousal Visa.

Requirement For A UK Spousal Visa For Nigerians

You and your partner must be at least 18 years old.
You must be married or in a legally recognized civil partnership in the United Kingdom.
Your sponsor must be a British citizen or a permanent resident of the United Kingdom.
Before getting married, you must have met in person at least once.
For the last two years, you must have been living together.
You can apply for a Fiancé Visa if you and your spouse are not married but plan to get married in the UK once you arrive from Nigeria.

Moving to the UK with Children: 5 Essential Tips to Consider

Have Open and Honest Discussions with Your Children: Communication is key when preparing your children for an international move. Engage in open and honest conversations about upcoming changes, allowing them to voice their concerns and fears. Please encourage them to say goodbye to friends and family members, helping them cope with the emotional aspects of leaving familiar surroundings. For older children, involve them in researching the new country, its culture, and the exciting opportunities that await them. This involvement can build excitement and a sense of anticipation for the journey ahead.
Gather Necessary Legal Documentation: Navigating immigration processes can be complex, particularly when you’re a mother moving with dependent children. Ensure you have all the required legal documentation well in advance. If your children are under 18, they can be granted a dependent visa. However, single mothers should seek guidance from an immigration lawyer to avoid any potential travel issues. Being well-prepared with the necessary paperwork will save you time and stress at immigration checkpoints.
Research Childcare Options: Childcare can be a major concern for mothers moving to the UK. With no access to public healthcare, exploring childcare options before moving is essential. Research and familiarize yourself with the available childcare providers in the city you plan to relocate to. Understand the costs involved and evaluate which option best suits your family’s needs. This proactive approach will help you transition into your new routine with ease.
Build a Supportive Network: Transitioning to a new country can be isolating, but connecting with like-minded individuals can make a significant difference. Join online communities, such as Facebook groups or other social media platforms, specifically designed for mothers who have gone through similar experiences. These platforms offer a wealth of information, advice, and emotional support. Building a network of friends who understand your challenges will help you feel more grounded and empowered.
Choose the Right Neighborhood: The right neighbourhood to call home is crucial, especially when you have children. Consider factors such as proximity to schools, parks, and amenities. Discuss whether you prefer a bustling urban environment or a quieter suburban setting with your partner. Additionally, determine the type of housing that suits your family’s needs—a house with a garden or a flat with a balcony for your children to play. Making an informed decision about your living situation will contribute to your family’s overall well-being.

If you’re moving from Nigeria to the United Kingdom with school-aged kids in town, this guide will help you prepare for your education in the UK.

Settling Your children in the UK, things to do.

Researching Schools

One of the first things you’ll need to do is research schools in the area where you intend to live. The UK has a wide range of school options, including:

State schools: Public/government-funded schools, a most common option
Grammar schools: State secondary schools that select students based on academic ability
Faith schools: State-funded religious schools
Private/independent schools: Fee-paying schools

In England and Wales, school is compulsory for children ages 5-16. The school system is divided into stages:

Primary school -Reception + Years 1-6 (ages 4-11)
Secondary school – Years 7-11 (ages 11-16)
Sixth form – Years 12-13 (ages 16-18)

When researching schools, look at Ofsted reports which evaluate quality. Also consider location, academic performance, special needs support if required, fees (for private schools), and whether the school has experience accommodating international students. You can apply to schools directly or hire an education consultant.

Following the Admissions Process

Once you’ve identified some potential schools for your children, you’ll need to follow the proper admissions process, which varies by school type:

State Schools

You apply to the local council for most state primary and secondary schools. You apply directly to the school for faith schools, grammar schools, and schools outside your council.

The application timeline is:

September-October – Research schools and submit applications
March 1 – Notification of offers received
Mid-March – Accept or decline the offer
End of August – Start of the new school year

To increase your chances of getting into a preferred state school, apply to more than one. You can indicate ranking preferences on the application.

Supporting documents like proof of address and your child’s last school report may be needed.

Private Schools

For private schools, you apply directly to the school. Many have their process and deadlines earlier than those of state schools. You may need to register your child 1-2 years before entry.

After application, your child may be interviewed and/or asked to sit an entrance exam. If accepted, a tuition offer letter will be sent.

Preparing Your Children

Relocating to the UK will be a major transition for your children. Here are some tips to help them prepare:

Discuss the move openly as a family – talk through apprehensions and excitement. Be positive!
Answer questions and explain how UK schools may be different.
If possible, have them spend time with other children attending school in the UK to learn about their experience.
If your children will attend a boarding school, consider having them sleep away from home for a weekend or short stay to get comfortable being away.
Practice English often to improve language skills.

Also, prepare them for changes to the curriculum by looking at sample timetables online together. Review classroom expectations and discipline policies so they know what to expect.

Handling Logistics

In addition to finding a school and preparing your kids, you also need to handle important logistics:

Visas/Immigration

If you don’t have permanent residency, you can apply for a tier 4 international student visa for your child to study in the UK.
A work visa may require you as a parent to reside with your children in the UK legally.

Vaccinations

Schedule your child’s immunization updates early – the UK has requirements beyond what Nigeria requires.

Transportation

Determine how your kids will get to school—walking, taking the school bus, using public transport, or using a private car service all have pros and cons.
If using a bus, apply for transport assistance if eligible.

Uniforms/Supplies

Order school uniforms well in advance of the start of term.
Buy any required supplies – check individual school lists.

Settling Your Child into School

Once you arrive in the UK in late summer, focus on settling your child into their new school:

Attend orientation programs to meet teachers/staff and other students
Tour classroom and school facilities so your child is familiar with the surroundings
Share special needs, medical conditions, and learning requirements with school officials
Confirm transportation plans for getting your child to and from school
Introduce your child to classmates early on to start making friends
Encourage involvement in school clubs and after-school activities.
Stay in close contact with teachers in the first months to ensure a smooth transition
Celebrate the start of this new adventure for your family!

Relocating abroad with children takes thoughtful planning and open communication. Allowing plenty of time for the process means you can find the right school fit. Keeping your child’s excitement and nervousness in mind will help the transition smoothly. The incredible experience of learning and living in a new country is well worth the effort.